I’ve never talked to anyone. I’m used to handling things on my own. Aren’t people who go to therapy weak?

Not at all. People who ask for help know when they need it and have the courage to reach out. Everyone needs help now and then. In our work together, I’ll help you explore and identify your strengths and how to implement them to reduce the influence of the problems you are facing.

What’s the difference between talking to you or my best friend or family?

The difference is between someone who can do something, and someone who has the training and experience to do that same thing professionally. A mental health professional can help you approach your situation in a new way– teach you new skills, gain different perspectives, listen to you without judgment or expectations, and help you listen to yourself. Furthermore, counseling is completely confidential. You won’t have to worry about others “knowing my business.” Lastly, if your situation provokes a great deal of negative emotion, and you’ve been confiding in a friend or family member, there is the risk that once you are feeling better you could start avoiding that person so you aren’t reminded of this difficult time in your life.

Why shouldn’t I just take medication?

Medication can be effective but it alone cannot solve all issues. Sometimes medication is needed in conjunction with counseling. Our work together is designed to explore and unpack the problems you are experiencing and expand on your strengths that can help you accomplish your personal goals.

How does it work? What do I have to do in sessions?

Because each person has different issues and goals for counseling, it will be different depending on the individual. I tailor my therapeutic approach to your specific needs.

I want to get the most out of therapy. What can I do to help?

I am so glad you are dedicated to getting the most out of your sessions. Your active participation and dedication will be crucial to your success. Keeping your appointments, being on time, and bringing what you want to work on to therapy will help you benefit the most.

What are the benefits of private pay?

Choosing to pay privately (without insurance) helps to ensure your utmost confidentiality and privacy when working together. I do not need to release your records to any third party without your consent. Also, when using your insurance, I must diagnose you with a mental health condition that will become part of your medical record. If you choose to pay privately, information about the nature of your treatment and the issues discussed in sessions will remain solely between you and I. Thus, it is important to consider which option you prefer and are most comfortable with prior to beginning treatment.

How do you decide your rates?

My private pay rates are competitive to the area served and the services provided. Rates take into consideration my education, training, experience, and current insurance reimbursement rates in the state in which I’m working. Please note that payment is due at the time of service.

How often does therapy last, and how often do I need to come?

The length of time therapy takes varies for each client and is influenced by the presenting problem as well as the goals of the counseling process. I prefer to see clients on a weekly basis to maintain flow and continuity in our therapy as well as ensuring progress in accomplishing therapy goals.

I’m not sure I’m ready to start treatment. How can therapy help me?

Therapists can provide support, problem-solving skills, and enhanced coping strategies that are different from talking to a friend or family member. They can provide a non-biased, educated perspective on a difficult problem you may have or point you in the direction of a solution. The benefits you obtain from therapy depend on how much you put into the process and practice what you learn.

Who do you like to work with?

I like to provide a safe place for people of all ages, genders, cultures, religions, sexual orientations and walks of life.

What issues do you specialize in?

I specialize in working with individuals who were raised by parents with narcissistic, borderline, or antisocial (psychopathy) personality disorders. I also work with individuals who find themselves in relationships with people with these personality disorders.

 I’m here to help. I provide video therapy for clients who live in the state of Texas. Please feel to email me for a free 30 minute phone consultation.

What kind of clients or situations do you not work with?

I treat adult individuals and do not provide couples or family therapy. I do not work with minor children. I also do not work with people with personality disorders.

I do not get involved with any type of court case; e.g. divorces, custody battles, etc.